Category: life

Real Dreams ;)

Life could be so unfair at times.Pre-Destination and Free Will had always been a debatable issue.Why is it that things do not work out despite the best of our efforts.What should we believe in unknown power called,Destiny or the free will that makes choices and they become our destiny.When I keep trying hard for things and they seem to be going far away from me.The desire to have it dies inside me.I GIVE UP.

Rhonda Byrne’s ” Secrets” is about how the things and events we think about or we see ourselves at the places we want to be, They come out true.It brings immense positivity in me to read such books but circumstances depict something which is not said.It says , ” The law of attraction says that like attracts like,and when you think and feel what you want to attract on the inside,the law will use people ,circumstances and events to magnetize what you want.”

I do keep thinking of being a successful writer and a loved human being.I do think of a well paid and highly respectable job ( respect counts more to me than money).I think of marrying my Perfect Man and having perfect in laws.Having a Family that would stand by my side against the whole world.A home where love would cherish forever and quarrels would end in an instant.I think of having stability and complete freedom in my life.I think of freeing myself from all the bandages and flying up high in the sky.A life which would be as I like.Would I attract everything i think about ?

The most important action to take is the work within you .When that is done,You will be moved in the outside world to receive what you asked for .

—Work within me is being confident about my Dreams and believing my dreams would be a reality.Our mind has millions of thoughts every moment.It travels from distant lands to shallow seas , from past childhood to future scenes.Its near beach at the moment and on mountains very next.There equally are infinite dreams.My mind works against my heart .It says what heart dreams is unrealizable.Due to the rivalry between my heart and mind, my dreams shiver and break into pieces.

You are a human transmission tower, transmitting a frequency with your thoughts. If you want to change anything in your life, change the frequency by changing your thoughts.  Your current thoughts are creating your future life. What you think about the most or focus the most will appear as your life.

I did read somewhere the thoughts we generate are dependent on our past experiences , the environment around us and the belief of the inside soul.I believe in the simplicity of my soul .I know my dreams would come true one day.My thoughts are my own.I think of good but all i see is vulgar and bad.I see selfish hearts, cruelty and treachery around me.I see man turning into beasts and animal in the core of human heart.My thoughts take a negative turn when i see all of it.My past experiences state I had not always been right in my decisions.So, I doubt them now.My thoughts, the current state of mind is more than positive about Love.I had always been lucky to have love in my life as I was willing to give away lots of it.My thoughts about my future partner , my career, my future life wavers.I can see negativity around me which unknowingly or knowingly affects my thoughts in a way my future.

You cannot help the world by focusing on the negative things. As you focus on the world’s negative events, you not only add to them, but you also bring more negative things into your own life.

The perfect answer to my problem is mentioned above.Thinking about Negativity would only add it to my life.Positive thoughts come to me in loneliness.When i look inside me , i find peace.The conclusion could be I have to be alone to realize my dreams.My dreams would turn to reality when i move  away from the negativity that surrounds me.I need to break the chains and come out free.

Many people in Western culture are striving for success. They want the great home, they want their business to work, they want all these outer things. But what we found in our research is that having these outer things does not necessarily guarantee what we really want, which is happiness. So we go for these outer things thinking they’re going to bring us happiness , but it’s backward. You need to go for the inner joy, the inner peace, the inner vision first, and then all of the outer things appear.

Early in morning , A colleague of mine was reciting to us her sister’s love story and how their story actually says ,” They lived happily ever after”.My colleagues was not allowed to work or go out with friends late at nights.In a way , being caged at home.Her married life turns out to be beautiful as she lives life free.What she had never expected has become a reality.( She had always been brought up to be a good daughter and a good wife).

Her sister had a totally different life.She told her parents straight , ” Its my life and it would be as i want”.She never helped her mother in household chores and when she was scolded for it, she always said i would never need to do all this as a kid.She turned out to be a big girl in love with someone whom she happily gets married to.The girl visits her mother with in laws.The curious mom asks , ” Has she learned anything to cook”.The mother in law says, ” She cooks delicious food”.The girl who had never entered kitchen at her in laws home too.When she inquires about it with her mother in law , she says ,” You are my daughter now, Our respect and we know how to handle”.The girl probably had always thought of having a perfect family and she attracts it in her life.

A person who sets his or her mind on the dark side of life, who lives over and over the misfortunes and disappointments of the past, prays for similar misfortunes and disappointments in the future. If you will see nothing but ill luck in the future, you are praying for such ill luck and will surely get it.

Bring me back those days !!

Scribbling Gal tagged me for it.

Here,it goes..

What was your favorite back to school item to buy ?

Colorful pens,I guess.I loved keeping all the things in order – pens ,pencils,scale,eraser and sharpener.

What was your favorite subject in school ?

English . I had always been a favorite of my English Teachers.Still remember – Mr.Jose and Mrs.Sangeeta.

Did you ride the bus or got a ride from Mom / carpool ?

I had a cab to school which never reached on time.My friends were more attentive towards the school gate than the morning prayer.lolz. The only punishment I can remember of school days was due to getting late.

Do you have  a sack lunch or cafeteria food ?

Usually , I had homemade food to school.It was always enjoyable to have a variety of mom’s made food during lunch break.I do remember , waiting in a line for a samosa in canteens too.

What is your favorite memory from your school days ?

Quite a lot of them !! I remember those last days in 12th standard which are the most cherished moments of my life.The whole class as one- no groups.playing truth and dare.

I do remember one incident in Maths class.My teacher asked me to sit down on floor cause i had not completed my homework.I cried a lot and my friends still tease me for that day.

I remember those birthdays when a greeting card or  a gift from a classmate meant  a lot .Being flourished by them was an awesome experience.

Valentines day , new proposals,breakups and patch ups,Teachers day,farewell party,fests,annual day,Christmas celebrations.

Writing our names on desks,craving for that corner seat of the class,Three of us sharing one book,writing down notes for my friends,preparing fro an assembly,decorating that bulletin board,envying science students due to their free classes.

Whispering into ears during morning prayer,Giggling at our friends who got caught for their mischief,Sending text messages to each other in classes.

Someone fetch me back those days !!!!

Missing all the fun in life !!!!

thoughts to share

Sometimes memories are better forgotten.
Sometimes they’re not, but over time you seem to lose them.
But sometimes, even though some memories are too hard to even bear, you want to hold on to the BAD and the GOOD memories.
cause in the end, you realize there was a reason for all that misery, that it resulted in happiness.

To be sad is a beautiful thing. To hold your friend close and shed a tear for them in their grief, to say goodbye to that relative you never got to know and to hang your head in sorrow as the casket is carried off, and to completely lose all control of yourself and bawl as the one you truely love leaves you. Its all really quite lovely when you give it some thought. To feel such passion, such love that your willing to show an emotion that can cause so much effect. But when its all over. When the tears just can’t seem to come anymore, and the pain begins to fade, it okay. Smile. Cause you made it through and sometimes, thats the most we could ever ask for.

“its hard to hold on to something that you know would never be yours in any way you think of, you just have to learn to let go and face the fact that while good things never last….some don’t even start…..”

I wanna get lost from my life sometimes, sit on the side and watch the world go by, I wanna get lost and I don’t know why.

Life isn’t always what you want it to be. It has its ups and it has its downs; but you’ll always come through scratched and scarred, but know that the experience is just going to make you stronger. As a wise person once said, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” So no matter how many times someone pushes you down in life, stand right back up, and keep moving towards who you want to be and what you want to do. No matter who you are or where you’re from, always remember you can make it through whatever anyone throws at you if you just try hard enough.

How do I say goodbye to someone I never had?Why do tears fall to someone who was never really mine?Why do I miss someone I was never been with?Why do I love someone whose love was never truly mine?

Your heart breaks into million pieces, you regret at ever chance you had to make things right, ever night you lay motionlessly staring at the top of your celeling wall thinking why didn’t I do something before tonight? Then you wake up the next morning with a brand new chance to do it again, take it and tell them how you feel before its too late, like it was for me!

Somewhere there’s someone who dreams of your smile
and finds in your presense that life is worthwhile
So when you are lonely remember its true
somebody somewhere is thinking of you

When a girl has no make up on, her hair is a mess, she is dressed in rags and you look her into the eyes and say your beautiful, thats love.
When a guy does something embarrasing for you, its love.
When you have no words for what you are feeling, its love

What is life !!

Life is  happiness …

“Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn’t arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I’m going to be happy in it.”

Life is joy …

“I do it for joy it brings,cause I’m a joyful girl.Cause the world owes us nothing,we owe each other the world.”

Life is love…

“The more I think it over, the more I feel that there is nothing more truly artistic than to love people.”

Life is faith…

“You block your dream when you allow your fear to grow bigger than your faith”

Life is freedom…

“Freedom in general may be defined as the absence of obstacles to the realization of desires.”

Life is fantasy..

“The best thing about dreams is that fleeting moment ,when you are between asleep and awake ,when you don’t know the difference between reality and fantasy ,when for just that one moment you feel with your entire soul that the dream is a reality ,and it really happened .”

Life is art…
“A writer should write with his eyes and a painter paint with his ears.”

Life is a dream …

“I like dreams of the future better than the history of the past.”

Life is a fairy tale…

“Every man’s life is a fairy tale written by God’s fingers.”

Life is delight…
“A man’s delight in looking forward to and hoping for some particular satisfaction is a part of the pleasure flowing out of it, enjoyed in advance. But this is afterward deducted, for the more we look forward to anything the less we enjoy it when it comes. ”

Life is peace …
“Better than a thousand hollow words, is one word that brings peace.”

Life is nature…

“All my life I have tried to pluck a thistle and plant a flower wherever the flower would grow in thought and mind.”

Life is elegance…

“The only real elegance is in the mind; if you’ve got that, the rest really comes from it”

Life is to love it..

“One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: that word is love.”