Category: Guysssssss


Guys-Hunt ;)

On request of my fellow bloggers , I have decided to bring up ” how to hunt  a guy ? ” .Speaking frankly , almost all the girls know how to drive a man crazy after them . This post would be more for guys to let them know we know what you seek for in us .

Girls never really work hard to seek attention from a guy and when a a guy is still ignoring , it means none of the points mentioned below are gonna work .He has got his own view of a ” dream girl ” and would not deviate from it no matter what. I kind of appreciate such men who do not give glances to every girl that smiles.

well. ..here goes the simple steps for the ” hunt”

1. Smile

Remember to always smile if you get near him or see him once he looks at you.

2. Make the first move

Most girls don’t think that they should, but it’s usually worth it. A guy loves to know that a girl isn’t so shy being with him and is setting a comfortable environment around him. A lot of guys consider this to be a really cool thing to do, as it takes a lot of the stress off of them.

3. Ask him  a question

Guys love that a girl is actually the one who flirts with him first. Once you get to know him better, don’t be afraid to start giving him hugs and such because it will help the guy know you like him.

4. Compliment him .

You could say, “I like your shirt,” or, “I love your hair,” but make it kind of casual, guys like feeling confident.Even at times , appreciate the way they talk or dress up or walk.

5. Act as if you’re flirting , but when you go up to him ,compliment him for something you truly admire in him .

He will feel less pressured to come to you and talk after it. Guys never say but they fear coming close to the girl they have soft corner for.They become nervous while talking to them.Make them feel comfortable and stressfree.

6. Make sure that he is looking , and you look at him for exactly two seconds while smiling.

Don’t go any longer than two seconds or it would turn awkward for the guy.Turn around and look at him.Try to hide away and let him search you looking at him.

7 . Make you wear perfume

Everybody, guys or girls, likes someone who smells sweet, so take note to always wear some body mist or light perfume,but not too much.

8. Talk to him.

Its simple ..talk to him.Make him feel comfortable with you.

9. Don’t start shaking all over and turning red when you start talking to him.

That’ll just make him uninterested in you, and he’ll obviously guess that you’re crushing on him, and it’ll make you seem “boring”. Don’t make yourself seem too urgent to have him as a boyfriend, it makes you seem desperate.

10. If you have noticed him glancing over you or smiling , try dropping a hint,or ask one your friends to tell him that you like him.

And it turns out that  he thinks you are  really nice and he wants your number! Do not always think telling the guy is the wrong decision.

Add- on

  • Be yourself. Don’t act like someone you’re not because guys tend to not like it when a girl is being “fake”.
  • Make up is fine – In moderate amounts. If you look like a clown, you’re not going to get him. A morning glow is nice, don’t over do it.
  • Don’t be afraid to talk to him! What’s the worst that can happen? Try not to be shy.
  • Guys always like a bright smile and a romantic scent.
  • Do not try too hard. This is a major turn off, and it does make it look like you’re obsessed.
  • Twirl your hair. When you twirl your hair or talk to your fellow classmate acting happy you are more likely to get his attention then being solemn. Do not change your tone; a guy could notice that very easily.

Never to do
1. Do not behave childish.

OK, some spoiling is all right once in a while, but if you want him to treat you as a baby every time he sees you… OK, he will do it, but he’ll start looking for someone else after that.

2 .Do not accept for physical too fast.

Believe it not, and ironic as it does sound knowing them as we do, though you have always heard that men live striving for sex, they also use sex to test us.

3. Do not be too possessive , too demanding or too jealous.

The man is a man, OK? Sure he will once in a while look at other girls’ silhouettes as you walk with him. You won’t be able to stop that. Show him you care and have him respect you.

4 .Do not be aggravated.

If he once says you look terrible with that blue dress, it does not mean that he is saying that you should not wear blue clothes ever again nor that you are ugly nor fat nor stupid nor old nor a whore. He is just saying that the damn blue dress does not suit you in the specific occasion in which you are asking.

5. Do not be materialistic.

Most men will gladly pay for your drink in the finest restaurant if he finds it a nice thing to do. However if you ask to go to one of those snobbish places once and again, he will think you only care about his money and look for some real love somewhere else.

6. Do not take two hours to get ready.

OK, all women know that looking great is very important for any and all of us, but taking two hours to get ready is much more than a common man is used to.

7. Don’t be too possessive.

So, if he wants to go for a drink with the guys, as long as it is not to a strip club, you should “allow” him to go. Both of you deserve some time on your own, don’t you agree?

8. Do not spend whole evening criticising other women .

Though it may be one of the feminine most popular sports, men will think you are criticizing him when you are with your friends and they hate that.

9.Do not talk about marriage , if you are less than a year together.

In a man’s brain, this usually means a lot of money and obligations, maybe the last things in which he is thinking about at this stage of your relationship.

10. Do not offer him salad as a meal.

If you are on a diet, it is not his business. Never ever play with a man’s stomach, girl. That’s a capital sin.

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men – misunderstood

Men are the wonderful species who are often misunderstood.Being the silent breed,they are unable to express their emotions like women and are misunderstood .I was randomly searching things and got this wonderful thing about ” Men”.

Here it is,A survey being conducted on group of men for what they seek for in life and how are they never understood.List of things men want in their life.

1. Money, money, money. Put ’10 crore or so in his account and never hassle him with tax issues – and voila, you have one happy man.”

2. Women who don’t expect us to be mind readers. They don’t want silicon goddesses, or size- zero babes with the sex appeal of stick insects. But they wish women could be more direct in communicating. ” They must specify if they just want to be listened to or they seek advice. Tell us what’s wrong..

3. A girl who can read our minds. When were men ever fair? They may not want to read a woman’s mind, but they do want women to read what’s on theirs.

4 .Maturity . Women grow up faster than men, experts say.But men feel women should be more mature.But if they are so mature, why don’t they know how to react when a man is angry.

5. S. E. X. All things in life for a man revolve around the three- letter- word.” We agree that men can’t think beyond their pants. They think about it 25 hours a day.

6 .S- P- A- C- E. It is sacred for them. They need it and crave for it badly. ” We need a room of our own, where we can lock ourselves up and not be bothered even if the world falls apart.

7. Drink without snobbery.Chuck taking in the aroma of wines and Scotch – this snobbery won’t lead you anywhere.

8 .A job that pays us to go on vacation. All of them seem to be big on adventure sport, even if they chicken out on a roller coaster ride.

” Trekking trips and adventure treks, all paid for.

9. Night out with the guys. At least once week, a stag night- out because they don’t want their world to always revolve around the women in their lives.

10. Shopping is a pain at times.It is quite painful when your mother/ sister/ wife/ girlfriend cannot decide on what she wants to buy.

11 .To be the life of a party. So what if they can’t move their bodies like Michael Jackson or a John Travolta. So what if they are good only at a bad bhangra or a saphera dance? Your man loves the idea of grabbing all the attention at a party and is proud of his dance moves even if they make you wince.

12. Jacuzzi + Sauna. A luxurious bath in a jacuzzi, a glass of beer and a sexy woman at one’s side.

13. To be treated like babies.” We are always pampering the women in our life,” says Raghavan. ” Except our mother, no one else pampers us that much. Sometimes we also want to be the baby in the relationship,”

14 .Party every month . They want one big party a month without worrying about dropping drunk friends home or cleaning up the vomit on the carpet.

15. Gizmos, gadgets, mean machines. A car that would make heads turn. A smart phone with unlimited data connection, GPS and turn- by- turn navigation ( men don’t like asking for directions) along with an organiser and reminders that can jolt you from slumber. ”

16. They want people to drive in their lanes and obviously non- bumpy roads with no traffic. And yes, the traffic cops should treat us like royalty.

17.     No alarm clocks. We are lazy, they admit.                                                                                                                                                And women – mothers, sisters, wives should understand the importance of five more minutes of sleep.

18 . Food, food, food and more food.True, the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. ” We don’t expect our better-halves to cook like our mothers, all we want is for them to learn the basics of good cooking and we are ready to help them in the kitchen,”

19. Dhishoom dhishoom. They want to be able to pick up a guy and throw him like a soft ball, and impress the audience.

20 . A surprise bonus/ promotion/ hike. Once in a while, men would look forward to some surprise perks. Recession is over… so there’s no excuse, they say.

21. No bills. They don’t want to be bothered with bills.

22. Corrupt politicians caught in sting operation. Men like talking about big things like politics and governance. ” We love watching politician caught in a sting operation.