Category: girls

girls hate it when…

Girls hate things which guys fail to notice.Here are they ;

1. Ignore

The first and most important thing to keep in mind is that no girl likes to be ignored. If you are planning to live your entire life with a girl, you better master the art of making her feel special and important. Girls hate it when guys ignore them.

2. Their Friends

The reason why most of the girls have an issue with their boyfriend’s buddies is the fact that some guys tend to act like complete idiots when they are with their guy-friends. Endless hours of smoking, drinking and hooting while watching sports on television or indulging in a game of poker, leaves no room for the girl. Girls don’t mind guys spending time with their friends as long as the friends don’t start hogging all the time and attention.

3. Spineless Guy –

guys need to take the lead and have control over their lives. Girls don’t hate jobless guys; they hate guys who don’t have the will to work. In case you are hunting for a job and struggling to make your mark in the concerned profession, your girl will stand by you, but if you are going to wallow in self-pity and make absolutely no efforts to pull up your socks and make a living, then you can stop dreaming of having a girlfriend!

4. Respect –

Girls hate it when guys lack respect for them – be it their family, their job, their hobby or their fashion sense. No girl likes to be ridiculed about her work, career, fashion sense or even her make-up skills. Girls like guys who know how to respect them, because of the simple principle “If he can’t respect me, he can’t love me”.

5. Family bashing –

No girl likes a man who disrespects her family and parents. Things like under-estimating a girl’s career options or putting her down will also put you permanently on her black list.

6. Deceit –

Girls hate it when guys lie to them and let me warn you guys that it really doesn’t matter when you come up with excuses like “I lied because I didn’t want to lose you” or “I lied because I didn’t want to hurt you”

7. Ogling –

Girls absolutely cannot stand their man ogling at other girls and yes… it really doesn’t make the ogling any less annoying if it was done without their knowledge, behind their back.

8. Ill – manners –

Girls hate it when guys utter profanities. Also hygiene is an issue that most girls are very sensitive about. Girls hate guys who dig their noses or fart, burp and belch.

9. Comparison with other girls –

Girls hate being compared to other girls, especially if you are hooting for the other girl. So the next time you try and do that, be prepared for a wrath-attack or the ultimate silent treatment. And in case it’s your ex-girlfriend that you are comparing her to – then you are dead. A girl has every right to hate her boyfriend’s ex-girlfriends.

10. Last but not the least –

You have a list of things that girls hate about guys. Always love your girl instead of judging her. Pamper her but don’t smother her, respect her but don’t be her pet, give her enough time end space and you will get yours, treat her right and she will be yours forever.

gals are easy to be impressed…

You might be thinking or wondering what do girls actually look for in a relationship or how should their perfect prince be like ? Girls can easily be impressed being the soft hearted species who do not use much of intellect and logic before falling in love. Emotions always overtake the practicality in them .They look at things from a different perspective which may or may not be logical but always surprises men as they tend to miss certain things in life.Go on to read what girls want in a relationship or desire from their man.

1 A Man – It may sound simple but it isn’t .You need to act and behave like a confident real man who has a strong purpose in life and can treat a woman like a real woman. Women always look for power when they seek a life partner. They are mostly afraid to end up with men with low self esteem and who have a hard time making decisions.

2. Power for responsibilities – Women always look for a guy who has strong shoulders which can carry responsibilities and is never scared to run away from a problem rather faces it like a real man and takes it as a challenge.

3.  A gentleman inside – Women prefer men who are tough enough when they are facing the real world and can protect a woman but nice and gentle within who know how to treat their woman like a queen.

4. True lovers – Women absolutely find true lovers irresistible. Men who are not afraid to show affection in public and always pour their heart out for a woman and would do almost anything are the one’s who are on the top of the preference list for women.

5. Good sense of humor  –Every girl wants her guy to have good humor sense.A guy who can make others laugh will have high level of inter personal skills. These kinds of guys easily get noticed by the girls.

6 .  Positive attitude – Women can smell a loser from miles away and this is possibly the major reason why nice guys always going to finish last since they seem to have a positive attitude towards life and are always seeking attention from girls.

7.  Security – From knowing that they can trust the man with their life, finances and possibly children, to fidelity completely believing that they will one day provide a stable home for them and would never cheat on them.

8.  Intelligence – In order to have stimulating conversations with each other and others around you, he must be at or slightly above the intelligence level of the woman. If not, it can be boring or disappointing for some.

9 .  Same interests –

In order to have fun and indulge in detailed conversations, you need to have the same hobbies, likes or dislikes. If she likes or is very involved in music and he hates it, they could have a serious problem.If a man drinks or smokes or likes to go to bars, a women who doesn’t drink or smoke may not be interested in going out on a date to his favorite pub. Remember, the above says “at least some,” not all of the same interests. This keeps the relationship interesting.

10. To feel loved and cherished – Girls are always brought up in a loving and pampering way.They desire to be pampered in a relationship too.Whether it is through a warm embrace or a genuine look, love her as if she is your greatest and most prized possession.

One thing you never knew !!

One thing about me you could not have ever guessed..what i never show to you..I am feminist to the core.

Being a girl is what i am really proud of..We, the most beautiful species on earth.Girls are the beings who are innocent at heart ,blessed with a softhearted nature and sensible beings who are empowered with emotional strength.Like rose petals in rain – beautiful ,serene and purest of all.

We are romantic to the core..the innocence in us makes us loved.We can always make men go crazy by things we do for them.We do silly things and make you smile.We ask for a date and get it even on busiest of your days.Isn’t it true ?

We can  make things come alive.A girl has so much of life within her that objects seem to speak up in her presence.The way we care for our wardrobe,our gifts,dried flowers,chocolate wrappers and dresses can be termed ” Silly” by a few.In reality ,we make things come to life.

We can always drive you crazy by just a look into your eyes.A smile passed can make you wait endlessly for us all your nights.A hug can make you loose yourself.A word of praise by us could be cherished by you all your life.We can actually make you realize this world isn’t that bad.

All of the above statements are an instant reaction for the lines i read by Kamala Das which had hurt me deep inside.I am a Feminist to the core.I feel women are the privileged beings on the earth ans just cause they have more of patience , they can’t be put to test always.Men should respect and love the species fro it’s here they find all the peace and love and warmth to share.The world could have been brought to doom had we not been there to give our laps for you to sleep,our ears to listen your heart, our love to let go your hatred.

The lines were  –

I don’t know politics but I know the names
Of those in power, and can repeat them like
Days of week, or names of months, beginning with Nehru.

When I asked for love, not knowing what else to ask
For, he drew a youth of sixteen into the
Bedroom and closed the door, He did not beat me
But my sad woman-body felt so beaten.
The weight of my breasts and womb crushed me.
I shrank Pitifully.

It is I who laugh, it is I who make love
And then, feel shame, it is I who lie dying
With a rattle in my throat. I am sinner,
I am saint. I am the beloved and the
Betrayed. I have no joys that are not yours, no
Aches which are not yours. I too call myself I.

A gift of God to us should be valued and cherished.

the complex creation

Girls are undoubtedly the best creation of God.They are blessed with  a beautiful body,innocent heart and great strenght.

Here,an attempt to understand the complex creation of God.

When a girl is quiet…millions of things are running in her mind.

When a girl is not arguing…she is thinking deeply.

When a girl is looking at you with eyes full of questions…she is wondering how long you will be around.

When a girl answers ,” i’ m fine” after a few seconds…she is not at all fine.

When a girl stares at you she is wondering why you are lying.

When a girl lays on your chest..she is wishing you to be hers forever.