Life could be so unfair at times.Pre-Destination and Free Will had always been a debatable issue.Why is it that things do not work out despite the best of our efforts.What should we believe in unknown power called,Destiny or the free will that makes choices and they become our destiny.When I keep trying hard for things and they seem to be going far away from me.The desire to have it dies inside me.I GIVE UP.

Rhonda Byrne’s ” Secrets” is about how the things and events we think about or we see ourselves at the places we want to be, They come out true.It brings immense positivity in me to read such books but circumstances depict something which is not said.It says , ” The law of attraction says that like attracts like,and when you think and feel what you want to attract on the inside,the law will use people ,circumstances and events to magnetize what you want.”

I do keep thinking of being a successful writer and a loved human being.I do think of a well paid and highly respectable job ( respect counts more to me than money).I think of marrying my Perfect Man and having perfect in laws.Having a Family that would stand by my side against the whole world.A home where love would cherish forever and quarrels would end in an instant.I think of having stability and complete freedom in my life.I think of freeing myself from all the bandages and flying up high in the sky.A life which would be as I like.Would I attract everything i think about ?

The most important action to take is the work within you .When that is done,You will be moved in the outside world to receive what you asked for .

—Work within me is being confident about my Dreams and believing my dreams would be a reality.Our mind has millions of thoughts every moment.It travels from distant lands to shallow seas , from past childhood to future scenes.Its near beach at the moment and on mountains very next.There equally are infinite dreams.My mind works against my heart .It says what heart dreams is unrealizable.Due to the rivalry between my heart and mind, my dreams shiver and break into pieces.

You are a human transmission tower, transmitting a frequency with your thoughts. If you want to change anything in your life, change the frequency by changing your thoughts.  Your current thoughts are creating your future life. What you think about the most or focus the most will appear as your life.

I did read somewhere the thoughts we generate are dependent on our past experiences , the environment around us and the belief of the inside soul.I believe in the simplicity of my soul .I know my dreams would come true one day.My thoughts are my own.I think of good but all i see is vulgar and bad.I see selfish hearts, cruelty and treachery around me.I see man turning into beasts and animal in the core of human heart.My thoughts take a negative turn when i see all of it.My past experiences state I had not always been right in my decisions.So, I doubt them now.My thoughts, the current state of mind is more than positive about Love.I had always been lucky to have love in my life as I was willing to give away lots of it.My thoughts about my future partner , my career, my future life wavers.I can see negativity around me which unknowingly or knowingly affects my thoughts in a way my future.

You cannot help the world by focusing on the negative things. As you focus on the world’s negative events, you not only add to them, but you also bring more negative things into your own life.

The perfect answer to my problem is mentioned above.Thinking about Negativity would only add it to my life.Positive thoughts come to me in loneliness.When i look inside me , i find peace.The conclusion could be I have to be alone to realize my dreams.My dreams would turn to reality when i move  away from the negativity that surrounds me.I need to break the chains and come out free.

Many people in Western culture are striving for success. They want the great home, they want their business to work, they want all these outer things. But what we found in our research is that having these outer things does not necessarily guarantee what we really want, which is happiness. So we go for these outer things thinking they’re going to bring us happiness , but it’s backward. You need to go for the inner joy, the inner peace, the inner vision first, and then all of the outer things appear.

Early in morning , A colleague of mine was reciting to us her sister’s love story and how their story actually says ,” They lived happily ever after”.My colleagues was not allowed to work or go out with friends late at nights.In a way , being caged at home.Her married life turns out to be beautiful as she lives life free.What she had never expected has become a reality.( She had always been brought up to be a good daughter and a good wife).

Her sister had a totally different life.She told her parents straight , ” Its my life and it would be as i want”.She never helped her mother in household chores and when she was scolded for it, she always said i would never need to do all this as a kid.She turned out to be a big girl in love with someone whom she happily gets married to.The girl visits her mother with in laws.The curious mom asks , ” Has she learned anything to cook”.The mother in law says, ” She cooks delicious food”.The girl who had never entered kitchen at her in laws home too.When she inquires about it with her mother in law , she says ,” You are my daughter now, Our respect and we know how to handle”.The girl probably had always thought of having a perfect family and she attracts it in her life.

A person who sets his or her mind on the dark side of life, who lives over and over the misfortunes and disappointments of the past, prays for similar misfortunes and disappointments in the future. If you will see nothing but ill luck in the future, you are praying for such ill luck and will surely get it.